If I want sympathy, I'm allowed to ask for it. If I want others' opinions, even if they're going to tell me I'm wrong about something, then I have the right to get those opinions. I'm allowed to have friends who offer me kind words when everything feels overwhelming and like it's falling apart.
And I really don't like having to unplug the house phone on my birthday because I'm living in fear that you're going to call me and yell at me.
Sorry. But that's the way it is. And for the love of all that is good, STOP JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS.